ohh, it really has been a while.

and so, September ended.
seems all so fast to me.

My sister got married on Tuesday. 290909.
was looking through songs, trying to suggest some songs for her. And I realised how long I have not listened to I Do. Awfully romantic. Awfully nice (oxymoron again. haha). Still the same as before... very sweet and cheesy song.


Totally mesmerised.


I never figured out why wedding banquets just don't interest me at all. It's supposed to be every girl's dream, big big restaurant, romantic montage, baby photos, wedding gowns, walking down the aisle and up the stage, infront of all your family and friends, going around the tables.. yum seng...

So not my dream at all since young.
Never knew why.

Going through the solemnisation, and the dinner, really makes me think alot about my own, in the future of course. and I agree, that getting married is indeed really easy. Troublesome, but easy, in comparison. Keeping the marriage is what matters.

So it matters not how grand or fanciful the wedding is, how many people attended the wedding.. It matters what happens after the wedding, right? How the newly wedded couple will keep the marriage, make good of the vows they made.. keep their promises to each other.


I figured.. It must be the wedding gown. Every girl's dream is to put on a wedding gown. It's so not the banquet. haha.


I guess it feels different, the moment you step into the crowd wearing your wedding gown. Cos a wedding gown is suppose to make the bride look pretty, and so.. you know the groom, and everyone else, is looking at the most beautiful person at the banquet, at least.


:)


Most of it is gibberish, but, it'll make sense some day. :P